The AJAN HIV and AIDS Prevention Programme for the Youth (AHAPPY) workshop was a profound journey for me. Facilitated by Father Ishmael SJ and Pascalia Sergon from Kenya, the program placed self-discovery at its heart. Although I have long known the importance of knowing myself, this was a powerful reminder that real change begins within. By reflecting on who I am, I am better equipped to lead and grow.

We also learned a powerful problem-solving technique called the TREE approach—root, branch, and fruit. This method taught us to trace every issue back to its root cause so that we could address not just symptoms, but the deeper challenges. As we applied this approach, it transformed the way I see obstacles—every problem, we realised, is best tackled from its core.

In addition, we faced the realities of HIV and AIDS, especially in Africa, where external aid can sometimes mask profit motives. We were reminded that while condoms are often promoted, they are not always guaranteed safeguards. Instead, the real fight against HIV starts with individual responsibility—saying no to risky behaviours and recognising that poverty, like health, is often best fought by first empowering ourselves.

With all these lessons, I am deeply grateful. I want to thank the Jesuit Society of Africa, Father Ishmael, Pascalia, my parish, and especially my fellow participants, who taught me so much along the way. Now, with this knowledge, I am committed to passing these ideas on. I mentor others, and I will share this wisdom with my mentees—because as I grow, so will they.

Reflection by, Akpofi Charles Oghenevwede,

Participant of  AHAPPY Training of Trainers, St. Joseph Muksa Catholic Church, Abuja, Nigeria